The Ultimate Love Story

I remember one Christmas Eve many years ago, sitting in my chair at church, listening to my dad give the brief message. I was probably thinking about my Christmas gifts or how I couldn’t wait for our Christmas Eve meal, but as he told this story, I was captivated. It was perfect for that Christmas Eve, but it is really an Easter story.

After a few of the usual Sunday evening hymns, the church’s aging pastor slowly stood up, walked over to the pulpit and gave a very brief introduction of his childhood friend.

With that, an elderly man stepped up to the pulpit and began to speak, “A father, his son, and a friend of his son were sailing off the Pacific Coast when fast approaching storm blocked any attempt to get back to shore. The waves were so high, that even though the father was an experienced sailor, he could not keep the boat upright, and the three were swept into the ocean as the boat capsized.”

The old man telling the story hesitated for a moment, making eye contact with two teenagers who were, for the first time since the service began, looking somewhat interested in what was being said. He continued, “Grabbing a rescue line, the father had to make the most excruciating decision of his life … to which boy would he throw the other end of the life line. He had only seconds to make the decision. The father knew that his son belonged to Christ and having trusted in Jesus since he was a child, was a Christian. He also knew that his son’s friend was not. The agony of his decision could not be matched by the torrent of the waves.”

“As the father yelled out, ‘I love you, son!’ he threw out the life line to his son’s friend. By the time the father had pulled the friend back to the capsized boat, his son had disappeared beneath the raging swells into the black of the night.”

By this time, the two teenagers were sitting up straight in the pew, anxiously waiting for the next words to come out of the old man’s mouth. “The father,” he continued, “knew his son would step into eternity with Jesus. And, he could not bear the thought of his son’s friend stepping into an eternity without Jesus. He made the choice to sacrifice his son to save his son’s friend.” And then he added, “How great is the love of God that He should do the same for us.” With that, the old man turned and sat back down in his chair.

Within minutes after the service ended, the two teenagers were at the old man’s side. “That was a nice story,” said one of the boys, “but I don’t think it was very realistic for a father to give up his only son’s life in hopes that the other boy would become a Christian.”

“Well, you’ve got a point there,” the old man replied, glancing down at his worn Bible. A big smile broadened his narrow face, and he once again looked up at the boys and said, “It sure isn’t very realistic, is it?”

“But I’m standing here today to tell you that THAT story gives me a glimpse of what it must have been like for God to give up His Son for me.”

“You see…” he said, “I was the son’s friend.”

“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him.”

And because every Little Love Story is better with adorable pictures of our nieces, here are a few of Bella Cate and Avonlea Joy from last Easter.

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Lindsay + Daniel

A Little Love Story from Lindsay:

Gift.

The best way I can describe meeting, dating, being engaged and almost married to Daniel is with the word “gift.”

He is such a gift. Our journey so far has not been easy. In fact, it has been challenging beyond anything I could have imagined. But when Daniel Lee popped into my life 14 months ago, my world was filled with a joy I could never have dreamed of and a deeper understanding of myself, love, sacrifice, and my relationship with God. I am learning what it means to have joy and sorrow at the same time, to embrace gifts beyond our wildest imagination and to embrace pain that can be filled with grief and sorrow.

This joy was what I experienced on my first date with Daniel where we walked the streets of Pasadena for hours just talking and talking. Joy was was our second date when he brought me flowers picked from his backyard. Joy was the first time he held my hand. Sorrow was when, after dating for only two months, he left for a six-week Marine Corps training exercise in Arizona. Joy was when he called me on the phone while in Arizona to tell me he loved me. Joy was when he came home and kissed me for the first time. Joy was when he took me home to Georgia to meet his family. Joy was when I met Daniel’s Papa and saw the man he will be in 60 years. Sorrow was when, on July 7, 2012, I watched my beloved get on a bus that would take him to an airplane that would take him away from me for seven months, to a foreign land, Afghanistan. Joy was knowing he was serving me and his country with his sacrifice, strength, and devotion. Sorrow was when he called me while in Afghanistan to tell me he will deploy again in October 2013. Joy was when he called me on November 21, 2012 to ask me to be his wife and be his forever. And no greater joy have I ever felt than the day he came home, February 6, 2013. Joy is planning our wedding for April 21 and joy is walking through this season together. Our road will be filled with both joy and sorrow, but I am learning to see the beauty in joy and sorrow. I am learning how truly blessed I am to walk this journey called life with my best friend, my beloved, the man of my dreams.

Lindsay Taitano Wilson -

Beautiful pictures, a beautiful couple, beautiful words Lindsay JOY Deklotz. People are going to be so impacted and inspired by you and Daniel’s story and your marriage. So blessed to be witness to that.

Lindsay DeKlotz -

I love you @[64301959:2048:Lindsay Taitano Wilson]! SO THANKFUL you will be up there by my side when I say I do!

Debbie Golden -

And together you will be, set in motion by God before time ever was. Time together dear ones. Love y’all!

Jennifer DeKlotz -

Daddy and I have been praying your whole life to meet a man who you could love and who would love you in the way of Jesus. I am filled with thanksgiving and hope reading your story. You two are a living, breathing example of the love of Christ in marriage. I love you and am so excited to celebrate the beginning of your journey together!

Alyssa N Rob Hosbach -

So sweet :) I am so glad to hear you finally met the man God designed for you.

Jaime Nicole Clark -

Such a beautiful story God has written for you!

Joanne Caldwell -

What a wonderful testimony of their life together.

Temi Russell -

My heart is just so full of happiness and love for you, sweetie. You’ve been a gift in my life and one that I have often expressed my thanks to God for sending. Knowing that He has sent a brave, handsome, and loving man to continue life’s walk with you makes my heart sing. Sing loudly! Take care of your gift and give thanks every day for the joys and challenges you will share together. Lindsay, I love you and wish you and Daniel the very best.

Stacey Griffith Sims -

Lindsay DeKlotz! These pictures are so beautiful and your store is even more amazing! I am so happy for you both and wish you all the best! Can’t wait to hear more about your life together! :)

Sancho Photography -

beautiful images, excellente job! I love the details with the lighting subliminal Sancho.

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Bethany + Keith | Teaser

Diane Monteith -

You look so happy. Beautiful pictures. Beautiful girl

Catherine Dalrymple Foster -

I have the biggest smile on my face right now. You guys look great!

Mark Foster -

Goosebumps here…Great photos! Sigh…………………….

John M Kopp -

Congratulations Mark! Not too bad for a mailman. Give Keith and his beautiful wife our best wishes.

You & Me

Jenn Elrod -

OMG… in love. These are lovely.

Sue Merrill -

LOVE these photos of the three of you. You will be so glad you have these. The head piece is amazing, did you make that?

Christin Willis -

Thank you Sue! No, Sweet Marie Designs made them both! She’s awesome. <3

I Love You

The whole “letting go” of the “getting engaged” thing was short-lived. Surprised?

A few days later, a Wednesday night to be exact, Jacob and I had made dinner and were hanging out at his apartment. We were listening to music and just being together. It was such a sweet view of what our lives would be like when we got married someday. The thought crossed my mind, “If he proposed right now, gym shorts, no makeup and all, I would love it. It would be so unexpected and sweet and just perfect.” I imagined him kneeling by the couch, grabbing my hand, and saying, “I put a lot of thought into where I wanted to do this. And I want to do it right here. Because if we’re 99 years old, and we are doing exactly this, that would be good enough for me.” I then realized that I had gotten this idea from Bride Wars because that’s exactly how Anne Hathaway’s character got engaged. Too many romantic comedies…

As I got lost in playing out different scenarios I suddenly blurted out, “I just want to be with you!” He smirked with confusion, “You ARE with me.” He pulled me in closer. “No, like forever!” Genuine surprise came over his face. We never spoke like that, so boldly about marriage. We were still using the “when I get married someday” instead of “when WE get married.” His smirk annoyed me. And with that one sentence, I was unleashed.

“And it seems like we are never going to get engaged and I don’t even think you’ve talked to my parents yet. You know you have to, right? Of course you do. And you never say anything about getting married and I know it’s only been a year but we know so why don’t we just get engaged and have you even thought about a ring and how are you going to know what I like and what is your plan? Do you have a plan?”

He smiled. “Don’t worry about it.”

I was not satisfied. “I need to worry about it. I just want to know if you have a plan because I have no clue whether I should be expecting it soon or not for a few months or years or never! I can’t wait forever. I just want to have an idea of when it’s going to happen so that I don’t keep getting my hopes up and I just… I just… I don’t know. Do you have a ring? Just tell me that?”

Silence.

“So… you do? Otherwise you would say no. Or, you don’t and you don’t want to tell me! If you have a ring, and it’s hidden in that closet, just walk over there, get it out, and ask me to marry you!”

I imagined him responding, “I have never met a more obnoxious, complicated, overbearing… gorgeous, smart, sexy woman in my life. And if you had just waited until tomorrow,” pulling out a ring box, “well then you wouldn’t be the woman I fell in love with because she doesn’t know how to wait! Which is fine, as long as I get to spend the rest of my life trying to catch up with her.” He pulls out a sparkly ring and says, “Christin, will you marry me?”

Oh wait, that’s Bride Wars again.

Instead, he was silent. I stared into his eyes, searching for answer, trying to read him. It felt like 10 minutes but he claims it was only 30 seconds. Finally, he spoke the words I had longed to hear him say ever since our “miscommunication“.

“I love you.”

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